Being here now

I STAYED UP far too late last night reading a short story about loneliness. Some part of me was totally depressed reading how the main character was so lonely he paid someone to watch him on the video stream on his laptop. But then, going around this gleaming city each…

16N in a pic

[caption id="attachment_8271" align="alignleft" width="2048"] '16N' Hanoi happened on 27 June 2017.[/caption] AT LAST, the picture of our guests at 'N' Hanoi: NARRATIVE. What stories do we tell to the world? Which ones do we tell ourselves? In this brief encounter, 16 people whose paths might not have otherwise crossed conversed…

One magic moment

***     THE KEYBOARD IS NOT connecting, somehow, so this will be short and sweet. (If you were there, the pic is coming. I'll email you.) I had such fun meeting you all, individually and then, together. A fuller, more articulated thank-you is in draft and I'll send, for…

After Việt Nam

FEELING A LITTLE CONTEMPLATIVE, right now. Back at 'my' cafe. Probably for the last time, since tomorrow is going-home day. The slow way. Back to Cambodia, this journey. 'Home' is there, for now. Some years have passed there. I am looking forward to regrouping, reconnecting with 2-3 people (the people…

Continued here…

IN CASE YOU WERE WONDERING, I am sharing more about the just-gone 'N,' but in waves. First sharing will be with our guests, then with our online community S P A C E , then at this blog, then maybe *cringe* facebook. There was a selfie. First. Time. Ever, for 'N.' Kinda…

Tonight in Hanoi

BIT OF FRUIT, some tea just now. Looking out over the rooftops, wondering what stories will unfold at 'N.' Many people to thank for helping out with this one, all of that will be shared later, when there's more time. Going to set up the space. 5 hours to go.…

Design for connection

[caption id="attachment_7670" align="alignright" width="400"] Click to see where 'N' has been so far >[/caption] TOMORROW IS 'N'. 'N' Hanoi: NARRATIVE. What are the stories we tell to the world? Which ones do we tell ourselves? Framing the space. But... really? Tomorrow? Tomorrow. Yes. Hm. Let me let that sit for…

The invitation

[caption id="attachment_7649" align="alignright" width="200"] As 'yes' becomes 'ticket-yes'[/caption] USED TO THINK that 'N' was about pushing back on the culture of maybe, way back in 2015 when the idea of orchestrating 16N, a 16-way blind date was just a sketch on a napkin. But, that was early days. Now, with…

What happens at ‘N’

IT IS SUNDAY, 11.20AM, here in Hanoi just west of the Botanical Gardens. Not too hot, and I have one hour to get all the information together for everyone who is registering for 'N' Hanoi. I'm going to share the meetpoint, now confirmed, and set everything up for everyone who…

‘N’ is making steps in Hanoi

JUST BOOKED OUR VENUE. For 16N. Terribly exciting, this step. Almost there now. For the real life 'N' moment. Our theme for Hanoi is NARRATIVE. What are the stories we tell to the world? Which ones do we tell ourselves? A conversation installation in DK's signature style (improv, reflection, conversation,…

This is what it looks like

BEHIND THE SCENES. This (pictured behind the title of this post, above) is the conversation I am having simultaneously with people whom I have already invited to 'N' on a poll that lets us all mutually agree on a date. Maybe you can read this post, 'Save the date, almost',…

Save the date, almost

SOME OF THE PEOPLE reading this page today will recognize what this means. The poll. Where the people who say 'yes' to an 'N' event work together to mutually agree on a date. At the time of this writing, we have 6 people 'in' for the same date for 'N'…