relating to others

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    Protected: Dear あ

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  • The value of a mixed set of sources of input

    The value of a mixed set of sources of input

    I write about things I care about like balance, quiet, making space for people to relax and connect. But I also am curious to learn new things, from, as I used to write automatically, new and different others. Found this old article (they mention Twitter like it was Old Twitter, which was good, even great, for…


  • DESK | Miniparty

    DESK | Miniparty

    Publishers around the world, including our humble outfit here at DESK, love to see things get finished, and delivered into the big, wide world. It’s one of the coolest parts about making things, seeing them received by people. Held, responded to. Picked up. That’s why we will host the next miniparties in a set of…


  • Protected: DESK | A state of discord

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  • Kindness is the way

    Kindness is the way

    Ignore the click-baity title here, this clip I’ve started the video at tells us a ton about why kindness is so, so valuable for us. The giver, the receiver: society. In an earlier part of the conversation, too, in which the idea of ‘status’ was addresssed, there was this whole idea that ‘power’ and ‘possession’…


  • Culture | What does it mean to have ‘community’?

    Culture | What does it mean to have ‘community’?

    The word came up, ‘community.’ In handfuls of conversations. Online and offline. What does it mean, though? I once co-hosted a conversation party in Seattle at Kornerhaus, which was DK’s office at that time. The talk was called ‘Gather: What does it mean to have community?’ I used to love to get people together in…


  • ELI5

    ELI5

    How we talk to each other: ‘ELI5’ But what does this have to do with how we talk about what we’re doing, and how we’re making things in ways that other people will relate to, and connect with? There is no one answer to this that hits all the right buttons. But eliminating confusion by…


  • Art & Copy Zine Club

    Art & Copy Zine Club

    Meet, talk, and co-make zines. Art & Copy Zine Club has members in various parts of Southeast Asia in case you want to try a real life version of our zinemaking ateliers. Meantime we also run them virtually, with calls and groups to gather conversations up and edit them into small stories. The Art &…


  • More than a decade after hosting ‘State of Publishing’, so much to say

    More than a decade after hosting ‘State of Publishing’, so much to say

    It has been a little while since I updated this post. Let me share my most comprehensive musings with DK’s Art & Copy Zine Club communities, because the interestingness is more interesting when you share it with people who are actually very interested in these kinds of topics. Writing and blogging and tweeting and other…


  • Art & Copy SF

    Art & Copy SF

    See you in the city.


  • How to listen better? Try this ‘trampoline listener’ method with 6.7K youtube views

    How to listen better? Try this ‘trampoline listener’ method with 6.7K youtube views

    Little shifts, big changes.


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    Protected: 鹿児島でのAtelier S P A C E はこういう感じでありました

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  • VOX on the value of a Third Place: ‘You’ll become a familiar face, a driver of conversation, a person to say hello to’

    VOX on the value of a Third Place: ‘You’ll become a familiar face, a driver of conversation, a person to say hello to’

    ‘Immersing yourself in the culture of the space requires intentionality, consciously caring for your, and your community’s, social health. This might require some actionable changes, like dedicating time each week to spend an hour or so in a neighborhood hangout, going into a restaurant or coffee shop instead of picking up, leaving your phone in…


  • Inside-Out Prison Exchange Program’s April Lee’s brilliant reply to the question, ‘Can we truly change systems if we’re still in them?’

    Inside-Out Prison Exchange Program’s April Lee’s brilliant reply to the question, ‘Can we truly change systems if we’re still in them?’

    Inside-Out Prison Exchange Program’s April Lee, pictured above, is a panelist in the video below. I love how she replied to an audience member’s question. The question was about whether the panelists believed, truly, that change was possible when the very systems that created difficulties are things we’re still living in. Watch this, to hear…


  • Protected: ‘Not every relationship can withstand authenticity’ | Could the big currency in the Age of Anxiety be trust?

    Protected: ‘Not every relationship can withstand authenticity’ | Could the big currency in the Age of Anxiety be trust?

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  • Awareness | A reason, a season, or a lifetime

    Awareness | A reason, a season, or a lifetime

    What is friendship? What is kindness, care, and what is closeness? Writing the next 12-week series of S P A C E at the moment, S P A C E | Spring 2023, ‘A Life Well Lived’. I just listened to a 22-minute podcast at NPR about this. The changing nature of friendship. As in,…


  • Issue #107

    Issue #107

    This week, a pretty fun collage, from real life and internet conversations that wound up in a pretty wacky set. S P A C E | HCMC ‘Quarky.’ Here’s a link. http://gum.co/space-hcm-quarky Thanks. ;) S P A C E | HCM, ‘Quarky’.. Beaming it up…


  • Issue #106

    Issue #106

    A. Spaice // DK · Mary Anne S P A C E | Dublin, ‘Mary Anne’ Loading…


  • ‘Tìm mình trong thế giới’

    ‘Tìm mình trong thế giới’

    It’s a conversation. It’s also a zine launch party. Meet us at a *secret location* in District 3. A daytime event. Registration required. Here’s a link. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/tim-minh-trong-the-gioi-tickets-132365898967


  • Hãy nói về mọi điều..

    Hãy nói về mọi điều..

    Hãy nói nói nói nói nói!… About this Event You love zines and wish you could find some in Ho Chi Minh. Guess what? We’re having a launch party for our weekly e-mag S P A C E in real life in HCMC. Registration page is here


  • ‘Thiếu’…

    ‘Thiếu’…

    The value of a thing is the amount of life we are willing to trade for it. Let’s discuss ‘lack,’ or ‘thiếu.’ But softly, quietly, and comfortably.   // Hi. I hope to find at least 4 people to make this *happen*. If we can, I will do this. I think it’s a big, big…


  • Relationships matter, and this is why, according to systems thinker George Vickers

    Relationships matter, and this is why, according to systems thinker George Vickers

    ‘Human contacts are dangerous [because] they matter so much, and no one knows how much they matter. Even the most trivial meeting makes a difference, slight or lasting, to one or both. ‘Intimate contacts make heaven and hell, they can heal and tear, kill and raise from the dead. These contacts are the fields in…


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  • Protected: Desk | On the challenging nature of not-knowing

    Protected: Desk | On the challenging nature of not-knowing

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