The Mirror





Attention is your most valuable asset. Steer your course knowing what it is that matters to you, exactly. With THE MIRROR. See what THE MIRROR can reveal to you about… you.   

WHO SHOULD JOIN. If you are questioning old models, and taking time to regroup, then THE MIRROR is an ideal tool for you.

You can use it if:

  • If you are in a period of limbo, 
  • If you are in transition, 
  • If you have just come out of something or are about to head into a new phase,  
  • If you have been through some difficulty or a change, 
  • Or something has pushed you to question your own goals, vision, mission and values.

The people I admire most are the ones who are true to who they really are. What that looks like is irrelevant; as long as they are real. But that’s me. I can talk about it. How to discover realness, how to move in ways that are honest, because for 20 years that’s all I’ve been interested in, and whom I’ve been talking with, to learn this. How to be real.

Big topic right? I’ve been studying it, in my own ways, ambiently, through observation, moving around and around, in the world. More about what a psychologist said about how we can change our personality by deciding what we want to focus our attention on, is at this link.

Dozens of tools are in THE MIRROR and ready to put to use. I’ll assemble the 4-, 8- and 12-week sequences based on what you tell me you want to focus on. I will learn this when you apply.  The application window is now open. The link is at the end of this page. 

SCHEDULE.  It is a 4-, 8- or 12-week workshop. Emails arrive once a week. Conversations happen in the asynchronous conversations on email, with me, 1:1. You’ll get feedback every Sunday, and a new prompt every Monday. You’ll also get a 2-page report, detailing all that you have shared in the instance that we’ve been in dialogues so that I can reflect back to you any patterns I’ve heard in what you’ve shared. Many people tell me this single document is the highlight of the workshop, because it takes what we’ve done together and packs it together neatly to provide a perspective that might be refreshing: your own internal dialogues, captured, and returned.

COST. The Mirror is USD225.

What people are saying

HERE ARE A FEW testimonials from guests of past online workshops that I have designed and hosted in the format above. They include THE COJOURNAL PROJECT, SELF and, the most robust and recent iteration, which is THE MIRROR.

My writerly friends (those who do so publicly and privately), I’ve been participating in Dipika Kohli’s CoJournal project since just before the new year (2014). It’s a unique project and it’s pretty special. If you’ve been looking for some structure or accountability in your writing – and supportive community in very small groups, this could be for you. Dipika is a compassionate leader and offers some accessible assignments that are helping to shift my writing lens. I love it.”—MH, 2014

“I am writing because I wanted to thank you all for sharing ideas and memoirs, I am very much impressed and really enjoyed the workshop [SELF]. I’ve been working on my writing, and finished one short story which I feel so happy after I finished writing it (it’s in Thai.) I’m working on its English version pretty soon and will send to you all for the feedback. Bottom line is I’m happy to let you know that I’ve somehow overcome my fear of writing, though there’re times when I got stuck with the stories, get distracted, or feel like it’s not good enough – if it was before, I was just going to give up. Now, I feel it challenged me and I find writing more enjoyable. Most importantly, I feel like my writing is getting better too.” –JL, Guest at ‘SELF’, 2014

“I love the space you are creating and holding around the world for deep thought and unusual connection.” —KA, 2017

“Thank you for the opportunity.’ –F, 2018

“Wow, did I enjoy the conversations. So much learning and fresh insights from strangers, old and new friends. If you think you can use some ‘seeing anew’—gaining new perspectives, noticing new sights, becoming aware your blind spots, this might be just what you need.” —AM, 2018

“Warmly recommend it.”–SG,2014

“[This] motivated me more to do what I wanna really do and kick some a**… Thank you, Dipika! —JH, 2016

Read even more reviews of my work at my personal site, which is linked below.



Apply for THE MIRROR

Here’s a link.